How Can He Move on So Quickly?
You have just broken up with your boyfriend and you see him painting the town red with another girl on his arm. You can’t believe your eyes and feel terribly hurt to think that he has forgotten you so quickly! You wonder how he can move on so quickly! Here are some reasons as to why he seems to have moved on!
He never had deep feelings for you
One of the reasons he has no qualms about dating another hot girl so soon after breaking up with you is because he never really cared for you. If he was just having a good time with you and was in fact flirting with other girls behind your back, he would have no trouble getting into a new relationship immediately after breaking up with you.
He is pretending he doesn’t care for you
By painting the town red with a new chick, he is actually trying to send you a message. One that says – I don’t care for you! In actual fact, he could be pretty cut up about the fact that you have broken up with him and may be pretending that he is not bothered about it at all.
He was never ready to commit
Maybe the fact that you started showing signs of getting too serious made him extremely nervous and afraid. He might have been the type of guy who is never ready to settle down and commit. This is the reason why he has broken up with you in the first place and has immediately picked up a new girlfriend!
Maybe he had moved on long ago but you never realized it
Don’t be too heartbroken about the fact that he has seemed to forget you in a hurry and is already in another relationship. The truth could be that he had actually moved on a long time ago and even though he still was around you physically, he had withdrawn from you emotionally.
He’s trying to forget
Don’t be too hasty to judge him. If he is seen with another girl, it could be because he is trying his best to forget you! If he thinks that getting into a new relationship can help him forget the times he has had with you, he will try it out. Wait awhile and see if his relationship seems to get stronger!
He is trying to hurt you
If he is hurting and wants to hurt you back, the best way to do that is to get into a new relationship. He knows that the sight of him with someone new is going to make you angry, confused and feel miserable. This could be the actual reason why he wants you to think that he has forgotten you so quickly and found a new love.
He’s hoping you will try to get him back
Sometimes a guy will try all sorts of tactics to try and get the love of his life back! If he is not really happy about the break up and does not know how to reverse the situation, he might try to make you jealous by showing you that he has moved on.
