How I Got My Ex To Return My Calls
After staring at that phone for a full half an hour I knew I had to decide on doing something, anything, to get my ex to return my calls. But then I thought, what’s the use? It had been four days and three nights now that I had been trying to get my phone to ring so that I can grab it up and hear that beautiful voice on the other end. It certainly would end all the feelings of frustration, desperation, shame, and even anger that I had been experiencing over those past four days. When that phone finally rang out and I heard that wonderful voice on the other end when I picked it up, I knew I had won at last. That is because this time I had a plan. You see, the last time I tried to get a response from my ex, I used some approaches that were doomed to fail from the start. I did not know any better at the time simply because I was so filled with emotional pains that I used all the wrong words. The first mistake I made, because the pain was so fresh, was that I begged to be spoken to.
It was pathetic, but at the time I just did not care. I was in pain and did not care who knew. When that did not work I just naturally attempted to create a sense of urgency, feigning an emergency situation that required an immediate response. All I managed to do was invoke a feeling of anger, first of all, and then pity for hearing a grown person sound so childish. It was positively embarrassing. So how did I get my ex to return my calls eventually? Well first of all I had to calm down and try as much as possible to control my emotions so that I could think as clearly as possible. At that point I learned that there were words that I could use that were excellent in encouraging people to act and respond positively. With this knowledge I then thought of what I did to cause my ex to become my ex in the first place. I then sought some professional advice on how best to deal with this type of situation.
I found out that if I used a little curiosity coupled with a touch of selflessness, I can create a little magic. With this new found knowledge, and trying to be as calm and friendly as I possibly could, I left this message: “Hi Honey. I just wanted to let you know how grateful and appreciative I am of you for what you did for me. Call me so that I can personally thank you.” This certainly evoked the right response as I soon got a call back and the first question that was asked was: “What did I do?” Now you have to understand that I had to be prepared for that question. The same source of my strategy for making that crucial call also provided the follow up strategy so that I was able to take full advantage of that one single opportunity. The eventual response was actually a small deed but what was important was getting that return call. From that point on it was just a matter of putting that planned discussion into action. I had to make sure, though, that I spoke from the heart so that I sounded real and appreciative. To my joy, I experienced great success.
