How to React When Your Man Is Flirting With Other Girls
Nothing is more exasperating and annoying than watching your man flirting with other girls! It is very demeaning and makes you feel like you mean nothing to him. If you are having this problem with your man and do not know how to react when he flirts with other girls, try out these tactics.
Don’t keep your mouth shut and smile sheepishly at him when you catch him at it. Let him know instantly that you hate it when he ogles other girls and flirts with them. Be serious and let him know that you are not joking. Don’t cooperate with him in any way and be firm about your views.
If he continues to flirt with other girls in spite of you telling him that you will not stand for it, give him a shock of his life and walk out of him. This will let him know that you meant every word you said and will not stand for any philandering on his part.
The biggest mistake you can make is turning a blind eye and deaf ear to his flirting. Don’t be a woman who is in denial. Ignoring his flirting and saying nothing about it to him is just giving him a green signal and encouraging him to carry on with this type of behavior.
He probably takes you for granted and is too sure of your love and affection for him. This is why he thinks nothing of flirting with other girls. He is sure that it won’t change your feelings for him. It is time to shake him up! Start flirting with his friends and let him see how he likes it. Chances are that he is going to be shocked and will hate it.
Have you thought of the fact that he is losing interest in you and is unconsciously looking for someone more exciting and interesting? Talk to him and find out what he thinks is missing in you. Let him see that other girls do not measure up to you and he will stop his flirting.
How long has it been since you have had a reality check? Have you been lazy where your relationship is concerned? Have you let yourself go and become fat, dowdy and uninteresting? Maybe this is the reason your man is flirting with other more attractive girls. Make the necessary changes you need to at once!
Do not be too quick to judge! It could be that your man is just involved in a little bit of harmless flirting. Maybe he is just a little bored and enjoys a little flirt now and then even though he still loves you. You should speak to him calmly and rationally and let him know that you do not like this kind of behavior.
