Shall I Avoid Him More to Make Him Like Me?
Along the same lines with making your boyfriend jealous, is the slightly less painful way to increase his attraction to you, which includes making him miss you so he will be more willing to work at getting you around him more often. Here are a few things that you can do to make sure that you are making him miss you more.
If You Love Something, You Let It Go
Being too needy or clingy is the best way to get rid of a guy, and by showing him that you are able to let him go, or at least letting him think you are able to, he is going to see that you are actually better for him as you are not tying him down.
Show Him Your Worth
Saying that “separation increases attraction” is not just an overused cliché, it actually has a great deal of truth. If you are able to show a guy what he is missing by making him observe from the sidelines, then he is going to want to be with you even more.
Make Him Think What You Want Him To Think
If you are the opposite of clingy; distant and unattached, then he is going to wonder why and work on getting the two of you back together. When you are wrapped around your man’s finger, it lets him know that he is great, however if you show him that you have options, he is going to realize that he may not be the best boyfriend out there, and he will work on winning your heart all over again.
Take A Short Break
The strongest part of this strategy to win a man back is by making him jealous. Spend a lot of time on yourself; go to the spa, hang out with your friends, essentially just put him on the back burner of your life for a while.
See It Through Until the End
While this method is very effective, trying to communicate to him, or giving up before it works only increases the risk of pushing him away. If you put on your game face, you will surely succeed.
Look Behind the Mask
Guys are trained to be tough from the minute they’re born. They’re supposed to hide their feelings and be strong, so if you do not seem to be able to make him miss you, do not worry about it, he is probably just putting on a front so you do not see him at his weakest points.
Believe In Yourself
Men tend to be reserved when it comes to their emotions, but if you are showing him that you are ok without him, you are helping yourself and him.