Can You Know What He’s Thinking?
Would you like to know what he’s thinking when he’s around you? Do you know what men want from a relationship? Have you always wondered what attracts men and how to make use of that knowledge? What is going through his mind when he’s with you? Of course, it’s not possible to read someone’s mind. But if you can understand what many men want, you might be able to figure out your guy, and what he’s thinking.
Relationships are puzzling. Sometimes people don’t really understand each other no matter how long they have been together. But, men are not alien creatures either. They want many of the same things that women do.
–He doesn’t want to be pushed into anything. How do you react when someone tries to make you do something that you aren’t ready to do, or don’t want to do? He doesn’t like it, either. Women sometimes seem to think that it’s their job to push the guy that they want into a commitment.
But remember that men have minds, hopes, and ambitions of their own. You should be willing to let him decide for himself when he’s ready to make that commitment. If he can’t seem to make the leap, then he just might not be the right guy for you.
–He wants a real girl. Men often have to deal with phony women. Almost every guy has been burned by a deceptive girl at some point, and many are gun-shy. If you can be yourself with him, he will instantly recognize your honesty.
If you want to know what he’s thinking, you have to be willing to show who you really are around him. You might be afraid of showing a side of yourself that’s unattractive, but knowing who you are and being confident in yourself will always be more appealing than faking it. Guys like women who are down-to-earth and natural.
–He wants to earn a prize. There is a reason that playing hard to get is the oldest trick in the book. It works. Anything that is difficult to obtain is perceived as much more valuable.
If you are always waiting around for him, he will sense that you are too available. If you are just a phone call away when he wants you, then you won’t impress him as someone worth working for. You should not just act busy, you should be busy. Keep your independence.
–He wants to be attracted to you. Yes, looks are important, and there’s no point in denying or ignoring this fact. But that doesn’t mean that you have to be the most beautiful girl in the world, or even in the room. It just means that physical attraction is an important part of love.
After all, you want to be with an attractive guy, don’t you? However, that doesn’t mean that a man has to look like Johnny Depp to appeal to you. He just has to be your type. He’s looking for the same thing.
–He wants to be around someone interesting. Girls who are out trying to attract attention are a dime a dozen. Girls who have real substance are going to leave an impression. Men will always fall for a girl who can sustain his interest.
You will be interesting to your guy if you are interesting to yourself. Stay engaged and involved with life. Keep pushing yourself to get better at the skills that interest you. Try new things regularly.
Men are different from women, but they aren’t completely different. You can learn to understand what he’s thinking and what he wants if you pay attention.
